Boundaries
- why?
Jeff Tretsven "I look at what needs I am trying to meet by setting boundaries and what needs would be met by being open.
Setting boundaries - needs for space, ease, peace, self compassion.
Being open - needs for connection, contribution, compassion, relationship, competence.
Sometimes the need for ease is so strong that it is worth not getting the relationship needs met with that individual.
I realize when I set boundaries, it is about what I am willing to do, not getting the other person to do anything."
- Family normality
- My control
- What we choose- In my control
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