Boundaries

- why?

Jeff Tretsven "I look at what needs I am trying to meet by setting boundaries and what needs would be met by being open.

Setting boundaries - needs for space, ease, peace, self compassion.

Being open - needs for connection, contribution, compassion, relationship, competence.

Sometimes the need for ease is so strong that it is worth not getting the relationship needs met with that individual.

I realize when I set boundaries, it is about what I am willing to do, not getting the other person to do anything."



- Family normality


- My control

- What we choose

- In my control

- How to set boundaries


- Boundary led-thinking





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