Behaviour meme

decembrie 19, 2023

- Fight,fawn,fight,flee

- Good man saying no

- How people see me

- my belief in you

- ted triangle

virtues > Intimacy / Vulnerability

most thinkers (mbti) struggle with prioritizing the above values in conflicts over conceptual integrity (logic), even when experience proved it all can hang on a false premise and that really smart people also have blind spots.

what can make all the difference is understanding and integrating Elegance and raising Selfesteem [ones energy] as the priority.

process implies switching the premise from

A] projecting Vision and Competence as the universal priorities (intrapersonal + interpersonal)

B] projecting Vision and Competence as interpersonal priorities WHILE Elegance and Selfesteem a priority for intrapersonal ones

Strategy B is defined by [evaluating + buffing up] the Selfesteem of both parties

without Selfesteem one would struggle with the capacity to *hear* someone, let alone *understand* + *express oneself coherently* and even more so permeate convictions, in conclusion it is essential for determining/ proving conceptual competence.